I get often asked : how to learn to give fisting to a woman? Not to repeat the same story all the time, I decided to write this text. First of all I decided to look what people write about this over the Web. And when I found and read some manuals I was horrified.
It’s quite obviously that the overwhelming majority of these manuals was written by men. Because its style and content like an instruction manual for automobile repair: “put some motor oil on the piston pin, paste it into the hole of connecting-rod, and press it by hand…”. I don’t know how can this instructions help with automobile repair, but it’s impossible to learn taking delight with women that way.
That’s why I decided to express my own opinion for this theme. Although I have big and very positive experience in this theme, it will be some difficult to realize it, because in the moment when I acted this way, my mind half switched off, and describe something or give any recommendations, I can’t, I simply haven’t condition.
First of all we should identify what we’ll talk about, I mean what is fisting. One of definition which I found in the internet was “fisting – is penetration in vaginal or anal hole by hand fingers or by fist”. First, I want exclude right away fisting to men, I don’t understand something in this. Second, I categorically against word “penetration”. Meaning of fisting, at my look, is not penetrating into some hole, I think its mean caress and give pleasure to her. And third, I don’t think that caress by two or three fingers can deliver same pleasure as by whole fist.
Finally, I’d definite this as: “fisting is a way to caress (stimulate) women by fist of hand placed into vaginal or anal inlet (hole)”.
Of course this definition not snow whole meaning too. Even considering my positive experience in this theme, I can’t allege that fisting is absolutely safe action. Especially for beginners. So it needs maximum carefull attitude from both partners, and accordingly, it need very high level of trust between partners. Usually men don’t like speak about love and feelings, but I think that fisting is highest form of sexual contact, and only one way to start experiments in this direction is when relation between partners can be described by words “love” and “feelings”. (of course if one of partners not is international Honoured Master of Sports ).
Potential of women organism depends in high lever on that, what woman like to call “feeling”, or I can try to call it instinctively motivation. Just for example. I can easily lay on the back with open mouth, and my partner will with all ones might drive his penis in my throat to the end of one, I will suffocating, but this motion will give me biggest pleasure. But I absolutely unable to swallow even tip of a dildo.
Before start learning something, you must answer the question, do you need this learning, if yes – what for. In many cases it’s hard to learn fisting and it may need long training period. Make a go of it possible in case well understanding of target of this efforts, and if process of training will give you a pleasure. All the more in that case it needs efforts from both partners regardless of whether it is your marital partner or a hired escort from cityofeve.com.